You’re Not Lazy—You’re Overwhelmed: The Hidden Cost of ‘Just Push Through’

When we think about safety, most of us imagine locked doors, strong walls, or feeling secure in our homes. But there’s another kind of safety we all long for—one that

We all carry stories about who we are. Some are hopeful and grounding: “I’m a caring friend,” “I’ve survived difficult things,” “I can adapt.” Others, though, weigh us down: “I’m

If you’ve ever felt like your mind is racing, your chest is tight, or your surroundings suddenly feel unreal—you’re not alone. These experiences often happen when our nervous system gets

Many of us were raised to believe that being a “good” person means saying yes—being helpful, selfless, available. Especially in communities where family and faith are central, putting others first

We all have an inner voice that keeps us company throughout the day. Sometimes, it encourages us or reminds us of what’s important. But for many, that voice becomes a

When life throws us off course—whether through loss, setbacks, or daily struggles—it’s easy to wonder: how do some people seem to find their way back to calm while others feel

Living in South Africa means navigating many daily pressures—from job uncertainty and financial strain to crime and ongoing societal changes. These challenges affect our sense of safety, belonging, and hope.

Resilience isn’t about never struggling—it’s about how we navigate life’s challenges, adapt to change, and keep moving forward, even when things feel overwhelming. It’s not a trait we’re born with

In South Africa, we often hear the word resilience tossed around—whether it’s in response to rising challenges at work, family pressures, or the unpredictability of daily life. But what resilience

Jaco always held his daughter’s hand too tightly. Even in the safety of their own driveway, his grip remained firm, his eyes scanning the street before they reached the car.

Sometimes, words just aren’t enough. When emotions feel tangled, memories seem too heavy to unpack, or past experiences defy explanation, healing can feel out of reach. That’s where Sand Play

Trust is the invisible thread that ties relationships, communities, and even our sense of self together. It’s a cornerstone of human connection, yet it can feel fragile, especially in a

Life can sometimes feel like an endless to-do list, with demands pulling us in every direction. In the hustle of meeting deadlines, caring for loved ones, and keeping up with

In a world that moves at lightning speed, finding moments of calm can feel like a luxury. Whether it’s the endless to-do lists, the constant buzz of notifications, or the

The New Year often begins with hope and enthusiasm, but life’s challenges can arise when we least expect them, sometimes leaving us feeling overwhelmed or uncertain. Even with the best

As the calendar turns to a new year, it’s natural to look back and take stock of where we’ve been—and where we’re going. Reflecting on the past year can provide

The holiday season is often described as the most wonderful time of the year, filled with lights, laughter, and love. But beyond the decorations and festivities lies a deeper magic:

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by an unshakable sense of dread or caught yourself spiraling into a cycle of worry, you’re far from alone. That tightness in your chest, the

If you’ve ever felt that unsettling rush of panic when you realize your phone is missing or you’ve left it behind at home, you’re not alone. That feeling has a

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by an endless to-do list or struggled to stay focused, you’re not alone. In today’s fast-paced world, distractions seem to multiply while our ability to

You may have heard the term “quiet quitting” floating around, but what does it actually mean? Contrary to how it sounds, quiet quitting isn’t about walking away from your job

Confidence doesn’t just appear—it’s built through repeated actions, often outside of what feels comfortable or familiar. If you’re looking to grow your confidence, it helps to shift your focus to

Stress and tension often have a way of manifesting in our bodies, sometimes without us even realising it. One common but often overlooked sign of underlying stress is clenching or

In a world full of “how to be better” books, picture-perfect morning routines, and apps promising to “unlock your potential,” the desire to improve ourselves is both familiar and understandable.

EMDR uses a structured eight-phase approach and works directly with memory networks and enhances information processing by forging associations between the distressing memory and more adaptive information contained in other

Have you ever found yourself reaching for a sugary snack after a stressful day, or binge-eating when you’re feeling down? It’s something we’ve all done—using food to cope with our

In today’s busy world, it’s easy to feel mentally drained or emotionally overwhelmed. Whether it’s juggling work, family, or just the everyday pressures of life, many of us struggle to

We live in a fast-paced world where our minds are often filled with endless distractions. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed, stressed, or disconnected from ourselves. That’s where mindfulness and meditation

Healthy relationships are so important for our mental well-being. Whether it’s family, friends, or romantic partners, the connections we build can shape how we feel, how we view the world,

Have You Ever Felt Stuck in a Low Mood? Low moods can hit when we least expect them. Sometimes, you might feel down without knowing exactly why, and I want

Have you ever come across a headline that made you pause and wonder, “Is this really true?” In today’s South Africa, with social media and online platforms growing in influence,

Chasing Perfection: Is the “Perfect” Life Just a Myth? Have you ever felt the weight of trying to live the “perfect” life? Maybe it’s keeping up with career goals, maintaining

Have you ever set a goal that felt exciting at first but soon turned overwhelming? Maybe you wanted to shed a few pounds, ace that promotion, or finally pick up

Have you ever faced a moment where the road ahead seems impossibly long, and you weren’t sure if you had the strength to keep going? Maybe it was a challenge

Have you ever found yourself standing at the foot of a mountain, looking up at the steep climb ahead, and wondering if you have what it takes to make it

Have you ever found yourself feeling overwhelmed by emotions but not really sure what exactly you were feeling? Maybe you’ve been in a situation where you knew you were upset,

Resilience is more than just “bouncing back.” It’s about navigating life’s storms, sometimes battered but never broken. In South Africa, where crime, unemployment, and daily stressors weigh heavily, resilience isn’t

For 1 in 10 people, insomnia is an ongoing struggle that affects every aspect of a person’s life, sapping their energy, making it difficult to concentrate, & making them feel

Imagine trying to move forward in life while feeling tethered to painful memories from your past. It’s like walking with an invisible weight, dragging you back whenever you try to

This morning, I woke up with an overwhelming heaviness in my heart and a sense that I needed to reach out and connect with you right now – before I

Have you ever felt like you’re carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders? Like no matter how hard you try, you can’t seem to catch a break? If

We’ve all been there, lying in bed, staring at the ceiling, willing ourselves to fall asleep. It’s a frustrating and lonely experience, one that leaves us feeling drained and defeated.

As the days grow shorter and the temperatures drop, many of us begin to experience a dip in their mood and energy levels. If you’ve ever felt like you’re hibernating

In our previous article Are Your Thoughts Playing Tricks on You? Discover the 12 Cognitive Distortions that might be Holding You Back , we delved into the realm of cognitive

We all have thoughts running through our minds every day, shaping how we feel and behave. But what if these thoughts aren’t always accurate? What if they’re actually biassed and

Father’s Day is more than just a day on the calendar—it’s a celebration of the profound role that fathers play in our lives. Beyond the title of “father,” there lies

Have you ever woken up already feeling tired, like your energy was spent before the day even began? Maybe you’ve caught yourself staring at your to-do list with a dull

Do you ever pick up your phone for a quick check—only to look up hours later, lost in a sea of notifications, videos, and social media updates? You’re not alone.

It’s Monday morning, and your to-do list stretches endlessly before you. You sit down, ready to tackle the first task… but before you know it, you’re scrolling through social media,

The Vicious Cycle of Doom Scrolling Whether it’s the run-up to the elections in South Africa or America, ongoing wars, or the escalating threats of climate change—It’s too easy to